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What do you stand for?

What do you stand for in todays world?

Do you stand for Happiness? 

Being able to live in a world with no fear?

Being a hardworking citizen?

For me, I stand for being nice to one another.

I stand for education and constant learning and I believe one should always strive to keep on improving.

Progression, getting better everyday by 1%

Food for thought. Till next time, Stay Stoic,

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Have you gone walking today?

“It is only ideas gained from walking that have any worth” – Nietzsche

Had an argument with your partner?

Tough day at work?

Feeling anxious or nervous about the latest news on COVID?

Go for a walk…get them walking shoes on.

Take advantage while you can and get outside. The key is to get out and go somewhere quiet. Get out of the loud city into the peace and quietClear that head of yours

Simple but effective, and of course, leave that little distraction device behind. 

Food for thought. Till next time, Stay Stoic,

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The Paradox of being connected

Being connected

We are currently living in a hyperconnected world, a world in which nobody has ever seen before. We have everything at our fingertips and can contact anyone from around the world.

Sounds good?

Well, not really, as we are superficially connected online with our “friends” and are more isolated than ever. Today’s struggle with isolation links to addiction, violence, and depression. The World health organisation has reported that more people kill themselves than die from all wars and natural disasters.

we are superficially connected online with our “friends” and are more isolated than ever.

So get off the online communities and out into the real ones. It may help you feel better.

Food for thought. Till next time, Stay Stoic,

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Virtual Overload

Are you getting your daily dose of non screen time?

Screens are everywhere, and since this pandemic has kicked us off our high chairs, the use of virtual meetings and chats have only increased and become the norm. Are you feeling the drain yet? Indeed you have at one stage or another. Before we go on, we need to bear in mind that the use of screens is not exactly a big thing; it is HOW we use them is the issue.

Here are a few tips I’m trying to implement in my life at the moment

  • Limit screen use 60 mins before bedtime 
  • Select one day in which you try to stay away from all big screens such as tv and laptops (Weekends might be suited for this)
  • Keep your phone in another room at night time and limit its use within 30 minutes of getting up every morning.
  • Turn off all app notifications that are not necessary (which is the majority of them!). Doing so will limit the number of times you hear the ‘bing’, reducing the urge to look at your phone

I hope this helps to reduce your virtual overload!

Food for thought.

Till next time, Stay Stoic,

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Clear the Mind

Clear the mind – Has your mind got too many tabs open?

Here are a few tips you can implement straight away to declutter, clear the mind and gain some mental clarity.

  • Less consumption (news and social media)
  • More exercise (both cardio and resistance training)
  • Take 5 minutes to sit in silence, zone out and let your mind wander
  • Have a written daily diary to write down all your thoughts (brain dump)

Have you taken time out to clear your mind?

For me personally, I find the following tricks helpful to build the habit of clearing the mind

  • No phone for at least 30 mins before going to bed and within 30 mins of waking up
  • Set the alarm right in the middle of the day to remind me to take my 5 mins zone out
  • Write in my brain dump diary every morning. The key is not to force it and write down what comes into your head. If you notice yourself trying to think of what to say, put the diary down and move on with your day

Food for thought.

Till next time, Stay Stoic,

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Clear the mind – Has your mind got too many tabs open?

What can I say yes to?

Saying no to things in order to say yes to the important things

Saying no to negative thoughts and to things that I believe are not essential. We can say no to zoom calls, watching Netflix, sleeping in so that we can say yes to reading, exercising, and being productive on our business.

Trying to select the no option at times will help you steer away from the negative choices and towards the positive ones.

Food for thought.

Till next time, Stay Stoic,

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Are you unfollowing the crowd?

How many social profiles are you following?

200, 500, 1000, 10,000 – How many?

Up to recently, I was following over 1000 Twitter profiles to bring me ‘value’, although I wasn’t seeing 99% of them due to the ‘algorithm‘. Therefore recently, I decluttered my following list, and now it sits around 100. And yes, some might say that’s still too much, but it’s a slow process!

So ask yourself the following question – Are the people you follow on social media providing you value? If not, then why are you following them and letting them have access to you 24/7?

Don’t get me wrong, as social media has done wonders for our society, but again it is how you use it?. So if that particular individual is not providing you value, then just ‘Unfollow’. The idea of social media is to connect us positively and not negatively affect us. If a particular person is having a negative influence on you, you know what to do.

Food for thought.

Till next time, Stay Stoic,

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Opportunity cost

Is the loss of other alternatives when one alternative is chosen.

Opportunity cost happens every day when we say yes to one thing; we unconsciously say no to many others. One must understand that it occurs multiple times a day, e.g. if you say yes to working late, you are saying no to spending more time with your family or friends.

A simple way to look at it is through the following equation: Yes to one = no to many   

We can also look at opportunity cost from a materialistic point of view. By saying yes to purchasing the expensive car, you are saying yes to working more hours to pay it off, which in turn is saying no to your freedom.

And this happens every single day without us realising it. So what are you saying no to today? 

Food for thought.

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A time to stick or to quit?

For me, at this moment, it is a time to stick. I have a few projects on my plate, so it is best to stick and see them out. At times, people tend to jump ship quickly due to the rapid pace of the current world we live in or not seeing results fast enough. Remember, the journey is yours and no one else’s. Have you thought about quitting for a while now, or have you been exposed to a ‘better idea’. Bear in mind a ‘better idea’ may not be the best choice.

Food for thought.

Till next time, Stay Stoic,

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